How to Ask “May I?” in Japanese with ~てもいい

One of the most useful grammar patterns in any language is how to ask for permission. In Japanese, the phrase ~てもいい lets you do just that. It’s a polite and flexible way to ask, “Is it okay if I ___?” or to grant permission to someone else.

~てもいい

May I? / It’s okay if...

JLPT Level: N5

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How to Use It

Use ~てもいい to ask or give permission. Attach it to the て-form of a verb. You can also use it to ask if it’s okay not to do something by turning a verb into its negative て-form (e.g., いかなくて). This phrase is common in everyday conversation and can be formal or casual depending on how it’s said.

Usage Pattern

  • [Verb in て-form] + も + いいです)
  • Add at the end to ask a question: ~てもいいですか。
  • For negatives: [Negative verb in て-form] + も いいです

Example 1

トイレに行ってもいいですか。

といれ に いって も いい です か。

Toire ni itte mo ii desu ka.

May I go to the bathroom?

Example 2

この本を借りてもいい?

この ほん を かりて も いい?

Kono hon o karite mo ii?

Is it okay if I borrow this book?

Example 3

食べなくてもいいです。

たべなくて も いい です。

Tabenakute mo ii desu.

It’s okay if you don’t eat it.

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